Hey everyone I need advice. I'm 21, 5'0, Puerto Rican, in the military, & pretty with a good heart. I don't understand why men are intimidated of me. Most of the males & guys I have dated all told me when they first saw me they where intimidated of me, scared to approach me or even be friends with me. I don't understand why. Is it because I'm in the Air Force they think I'm mean? am I really pretty that they get scared and don't know how to approach me? I just don't know what it is? I feel like all men that come across my path feel this way and I'm never going to find good man if they all are intimidated of me.Guys please help me out I really would appreciate it! Thanks!
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I think its the marines that have the rep for being mean, the air force have an entirely different rep altogether ;) I'm prior army, and faced the same thing as well as saw others go through this. I've always been the sweet bouncy giddy type, and could never understand what it was about me that could possibly intimidate a guy. Well, part of it is my height, I am tall...but the bigger factor was that add the physical training to my body which is already naturally muscular, and well..guys admitted they were afraid if we dated and I got mad I could kick their butt. I hated that.
For other girls, they had the military leadership qualities that even though they were very sweet, could step in and take charge of a situation, using her voice and actions in a way that would make the troop pop to it...and not really realize they bring that same thing to thier personal life at times, which can intimidate a guy no matter what her size or build.
Btw, I joke with my friends who are around your height that we give off the wrong impressions, with them looking small and meek, and me tall and fierce...when in fact with our personalities, they are little firecrackers, and I'm just a big ol defenseless pole ;)1