I am having major problems trusting this guy I have been dating for nearly a month. I just recently had sex with him this past weekend. I am constantly worrying that he is a "player" so to speak. But the thing is we spent nearly a whole day together just hanging out at his place he cooked for me and we even made a Strawberry Short cake together. And its not like we had sex all day. We played video games and watched movies and went online just looking at videos.
He told me that he had been married some years ago and that he divorced her because of how she changed after they got married. He was very nice to me and actually wanted me to stay longer when I told him I would have to leave.
So why do I still feel like he's possibly playing me and just wants me for sex, does it seem like he is only after sex?
I'm just really cautious as I have had bad experiences with men and I just want to be careful.
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Sometimes the suspense of not knowing if he's a player or not will make our minds restless.. But take it from someone who has a girlfriend that asks these "validating-security" questions - "Shut up".
Let's face it, you guys are having a lot of fun and he's sharing time with you. Nothing else needs to be said - it sounds like you are doing everything right. Just continue to be you, you have no reason to worry and it sounds best that you force yourself to "Shut up" in regards to worrying.. Enjoy the time you guys have together, it's not the last, but it's a hell of a lot easier than paying attention to the bad stuff.