I'm nearly 19 and I Haven't had a boyfriend. All of my friends have boyfriends or have had boyfriends and I feel like the odd one out!
What age did you have your fist proper relationship?
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I started dating my first boyfriend when I was 17, until a few months after turning 18. I didn't have another relationship or even date at all until I was 21 and got with my second boyfriend. We were together for a little over 7 months, but broke up 3-ish months ago, and I'm 22 now as of about a week ago. Single and basically hating it, but finally hurting a little bit less.
I know how you feel, and I know it sucks. I also know it's easier said than done, but you need to quit worrying about what your friends have or are doing, and focus on YOU and your goals, independently of your love life. Work on bettering yourself in all aspects of your life, be proud of your accomplishments and who you are, and work on the things you have yet to accomplish. =] And then when a guy does come along, you'll know exactly who you are and what you're looking for, and you'll actually probably be able to handle a relationship much better than all the girls who had to learn and get to know themselves while dating, because so much of their identity is based on who they're with. Who they are as a couple, not who the girl is as a person herself. A lot of the time they have to struggle later on because they didn't have that 'me time' to really figure out who they are or what they do and don't want in a man/relationship. You do you, and a guy WILL come along who digs you and is worth having. =]0