When a guy cooks you dinner, bring a bottle of wine. When a guy pays for dinner, cook for him the next time. When a man text you every morning, text him something nice out of the blue. Why do many women fear reciprocating emotions, my ex did and I just found out she was afraid I would lose interest if she did. Why do men have to give more than women, especially at the start of a relationship?
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I don't understand that either and I'm not that way at all. I don't like the games. If a guy is into me and I'm into him too, he knows it, because I show how I feel. I love doing things for a guy I care about. I do the random texting, cooking for them on occasion, bringing them something I found just because I know they'd like it, rubbing their back and shoulders when they've had a hard day. It doesn't really occur to me NOT to do those things, haha, because if I like a guy then those are things I like to do for him, I don't think about it 'coming across wrong' or about playing mind games. I'd actually be pretty uncomfortable if I felt like a guy was only doing things for me, early stages or not.2