I've gone out with this girl a few times, with long breaks in between dates. She was really into it on our first date, then came over for our second date where we just kissed, and we went out for a third date.
It's hard to explain but it seems like she's still interested but she isn't getting VERY interested very fast. She answers all my calls/texts, but never initiates contact. She talks about interesting things and asks about me, she doesn't dominate the conversation with herself. We've kissed at least once on every date. BUT - she isn't showing signs of being very interested yet. I'm used to a girl either showing interest by now or just not being into it at all.
Should I keep taking it very slow and just going out occasionally to see where it may go? Try something drastic? Talk to her about it (my gut feeling tells me not to do this)?
I listed some options I'm considering in the poll below. This shouldn't be this hard should it?
What do you thing guys/gals?
- Just stick with it, sometimes it takes longer. you're doing fine33% (2)33% (1)33% (3)Vote
- She's not into it enough, forget about her17% (1)33% (1)22% (2)Vote
- Try something more drastic, something that will really tell you if she's interested or not50% (3)34% (1)45% (4)Vote
- Take a long long break from talking to her, date other girls, and then call again in a few weeks if you feel like it0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
I feel like I'm this situation lol. I actually really like the guy and I'm into him, but I get shy around him so I tend not to dominate the conversation. I'll talk, but I like learning more about him and I don't wanna sound too into myself so I don't talk too much about what's going on with me. Also, I only kiss him when he initiates it although I'd kiss him every second as I could. Pretty much, I do like him a lot but I'm scared of getting hurt, also I don't want to seem to on his nuts, I'll definitely do more once I feel like he really likes me if that even makes sense.0
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