I went on a first date with a girl and it went relatively well. I texted her three days later and I didn't hear back. At first I was like ah whatever but two days later she texts me back and says, sorry about not texting you back work has been crazy. I had a good time. Mb we can hang soon" I texted her a day later saying let me know when she is available. It's now been two days and no word. She manages a bar so I know the nights are late especially on weekends. So should I call her or wait to hear from her? If I call/ text what should I say?
Should I call? Could really use the help.
What Girls Said 3
Go for it. Just remember she could be kinda busy.0
I agree with what the other person said. You need to show more interest! Try to make a specific plan and see if she's free0
When a guy says "Let me know when you're available" it makes me feel like he doesn't relaly care that much. I think you should ask her out and say "I would like to go out with you this day" and see what she says.
What Guys Said 1
Yes, call her. Say "Hey, I'll be at //wherever you intend to be anyway, regardless if she will be there or not//, at //whatever the time//. Feel free to tag along.
If she says she has other plans say "Cancel them. I'm more fun then whatever you're doing". And when she does that - make sure what you will be doing is a lot of fun.0
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