say you are hanging out with a guy who at times is quiet but a lot of the time he holds up a good conversation and can make you laugh. When he is quiet how would you feel?
Does being quiet make things awkward?
What Girls Said 8
Sometimes the quiet moments are the best ones. My boyfriend and I both like to talk and are good at maintaining a conversation between ourselves (or with others), but if he is quiet I know that he's just thinking about something and he may tell me about it later. But I think it's really nice when you can spend time together and know that you don't always have to talk.1
Uncomfortable, perhaps. I'd probably start thinking I did something wrong when it's just his personality. I'm yet to learn that silences don't have to be awkward.1
:) I would feel comfortable with him...he showed me that he is a good person and made me laugh...I would feel comfortable and enjoy his company still.1
No it's not awkward at all.
Just a pause in communication. happens with groups of friends at times too.1
As long as I knew he wasn't mad at me or anything I'd be well in my comfort zone. I like the quiet personally :)1
maybe a little awkward but if.. for the most part we could carry a convo.. it'd be fine..1
I would think he was just having an off day or didn't really feel like talking :).1
What Guys Said 1
Imo...showing comfort in silence show maturity. It's better than saying ANYTHING off the top of your head to break the silence.
Doing that is counter-productive and makes you sound more nervous and immature.0
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