I'm NOT talking about guys with egos, jerks, etc.
I'm a nice guy, I'm not immature, I have a lot of qualities girls apparently find attractive, yet I have never had a girlfriend. I'm not afraid to approach women and talk to them. But STILL I never date.
1.Do people (girls) think single guys like me are pathetic?
2.Do girls think of long-term single guys like there is something wrong with them?
3. The longer it takes me just to get a girlfriend, does it mean I was/AM sub-par, inferior, not good enough?
And I don't mean people who CHOOSE to be single. I mean the people who can't get a mate.
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I think its good when guys are single for longer periods of time instead of just fooling around with a ton of different girls. it shows commitment and that you are more serious when you do get into a relationship. It also shows me that they have more on their plate then just finding a girlfriend like consintrating on other aspects of their life; work, school, etc.. I find that a turn on. So...don't worry about it as long as you aren't like always complaining 'oh man...why am I always single." then it makes you look desperate.
By no means are you subpar or inferior- what extremes! I have seen your pictures your highly attractive, probably just haven't met the right girl yet or aren't dating/flirting/following -up enough. Personally I would go out with you.
Plus the upside is its hard to tell if a person is single by choice or just can't get a mate unless they outright tell you so you could always play it off if you're ashamed. I always just tell people I don't really have much going on in my love life and they kind of get the hint.