I got this girls number about 2 months ago and we texted back and forth a little. I told her we should hangout sometime and she said yeah we should. But I had to leave for school the day after I met her so we didn't get to hang out and I haven't texted her in about 2 months. So I don't even know if she remembers me anymore.
So do you think I should have texted her while I was away? Would she be pissed if I suddenly texted her today? I'm gonna text her either way but I just want some opinions before I do it and maybe some advice on what to say?
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Before I comment... Are you interested in this girl? If so, why didn't you text her? Are you just suddently interested in her now, or just trying to test the waters and see? Here's what you can try...
This will depend on the girl and the situation, but I don't see the harm in trying. Just try being casual at first. Send her a text sometime saying something like "Hey, this is (NAME). Remember, we met at (WHEREVER YOU MET)? I've been so busy with (SCHOOL?) lately, but I was wondering what you were up to these days. How have you been?"
Don't use this text verbatum, but something similar might work. Make it clear that you are not just bored and looking for a hookup, but that you actually care about what she's been doing and how she is. Text her a few times before trying to instigate a date (etc).