I recently slept with this guy, and we had a great time, even the morning after. My friends however have mixed opinions about this guy and I know myself that people see him as a player, but even though he has been around, I'm under the impression that when he first go out with a girl he doesn't cheat. I know that it might've not been the best way to start if I wanted something more, just can't help what I feel. So, am I only going to hurt myself if I start seeing this guy?
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YES! Strike one is that you slept with him and you aren't together. From a man's point of view, he is not going to respect you for that. Don't listen to people who say otherwise. Also, you even admit that he has "been around." Why would you even want to see someone you know is a pig and has used a lot of other girls? What would make you any different than those other girls? Also, no offense but you aren't going to be the one that breaks his habit of being a scumbag. You won't "tame" or "change" him. Tha's because in his mind you are lumped into the category with ALL the other girls that put out for him. I'm not trying to be tough on you but if you "see" this guy he will simply be waiting for more sex. But if you simply want to be a booty call and get cheated on then by all means, date him.4