For example, I'm dating this girl and we are both pretty busy so I told her at 11pm everyday that is OUR time to talk on the phone. If for some reason she busy one day at the time to just text me and let me know. How do you feel about "rules"? I'm thinking whether I should use this when I am dating in the future.
Anyway, I feel like she hasn't been holding up her end of the stick I do have a right to be mad right? Because I feel like at the minimum she can text me saying she busy doing "x". It makes me think she doesn't really care about me.
We have been dating for 2 months and the rule was set in place like 2 weeks ago
Because I can see in the future a lack of talking will lead to failure of the relatiohship. I did feel like the rule was unique but what should I do to ensure we talk? I need that quality time from the girl I'm talking to else I feel a certain way that's not good.
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Did you let her know that is how you feel when she ignores your calls? I mean, maybe she is actually busy when she can't talk... Did you two actually kinda compromise at all, or did you just TELL her? Relationships are more give and take, not tug-of-war.
On the other side, maybe she really doesn't want to talk. In that case, there's nothing you can do but call it quits. Though I would examine all other possible solutions before the last goodbye. I mean, let her know you care for her... If she does not reciprocate that feeling for you, then you might have to ditch her for someone who cares for you as much as you do for her. Give her a chance, though.0