How do I learn from my mistakes, find out why I'm getting rejected? they say it is trial and error, but still, for guys that have little or no experience in dating and relationships, that keep getting rejected when approaching girls, asking them out, how do you learn from your mistakes? obviously girls are not going to be giving me feedback as to why they are not interested in me, why they rejected me, so, how does a guy learn from his mistakes? how does he find out why he got rejected so he won't make the same mistake again with another girl? I don't really have any guy friends that could Coach me in this, so how do I find out and learn how to approach and talk to girls better? how do I know if I am being creepy? give me specific, very extremely specific examples as to what makes a guy creepy? coming on too strong?
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Well, when asking out a girl.. Just chill. Like its second-nature getting a girl. Be observing though when she is answering. Girls are like fish, you have to endure their every movement, analizing what they are up to.. But!, if your like some guys and you go ahead and stick your hand in the water and scare them, they'll obviously run away..., or swim away in the fishes' case (: hehe. Getting it? Just try to make her see that you are a truly nice and cool guy to hang out with. Approach calmly, don't rush it. But as I always Advice guys, heigene... Very important. Some girls don't like guys who smoke, or have bad breath.. Or have a strong, bad body odor. So take care of those things first! (: and make Sure you don't have anything on your face when talking to that girl, it sends the wrong message. Trust me. I'm a girl (; haha. Lastly make her come to u, if you bait the fish and she bites.. You score, brah! XD haha.0
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