So my guy friend of a few months asked me on a date last week. We had a great first date. we went thrift store shopping, then to an Italian restaurant and then we watched a movie and listened to music at my house while my parents were gone. we cuddled and kissed that night which was amazing. 2 days after I picked him up at his mom's (he doesn't have a car) and hung out at his dad's house for a little while. we made out for 20 minutes before I had to go home. the next day he texted me saying that he thought we were going too fast and that he thinks it will end badly. I see no problems with us but today he told me that he doesn't know if he wants to go on another date. we've only been dating for 5 days! how could we be going too fast when we Haven't even done anything super personal. He said that it went really fast with a girl he dated and it ended up really bad. Could he have been really hurt by this girl and thinks I will do the same?
he also got mad at me for telling a few friends that we kissed on our first date. he thought I told a lot of people, but I only told 3. I don't know what to do or what's going on with him. please help me!
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YES you guys went to fast , we as a men HATE when girls tell to other friends about the kisses , date , restaurant don't do it . Offer an apology and talk to him not in a room or anything that will cause temptation get a place like a park or nice walking. After that hug him as a surprise telling him that YOU DON'T WANT TO LOSE HIM believe me it will work . Love is based in thrust and truth in hope0