There was this girl that I really liked. I thought she could be the one. Well she chose some douche bag over me. But it is like I told her he would treat her like crap. Now they are done and she has been contacting me lately. But I really can't get past the fact that she picked him over me. I still have feelings for her but I just don't know.
Is that a petty reason not to see her?
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I know it can be hard to see someone again after they've hurt you like that, feeling like a rebound or just 'the backup guy', but it might not be that way to her. If she does have feelings for you, it could just be that her bad experience with him has shown her that she needs someone who's not like that (you), or it might just have given her a chance to think. Either way, feelings change, and if she does actually like you, I'd say give it a chance? It's not petty if you don't want to, because you've got your reasons, but there's no harm in seeing how it goes, I guess?0