I've gone out on first dates with at least 10 guys in the past couple of months, and didn't feel anything for any of them. I even went out on three dates with one because he was such a nice guy, but I had to force myself to kiss him on the third date and it was repulsive to me even though he was a physically attractive guy. I've felt sparks with just a few guys in the past, so I know what it's like to be sexually and emotionally and intellectually attracted to a guy. I don't consider myself to be picky, because I realize that a lot of these guys are great catches. I just don't feel like I want to open up to them or even kiss them. Does anyone else feel this way or feel like they connect with extremely few people?
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"I even went out on three dates with one because he was such a nice guy" Mistake. If you're not into him, let him go--immediately. You wasted your time, there.
Your fine, just keep dating until one sticks. It's what the rest of us are doing. Also, all those dates are showing you what you're *not* into, which is handy information.0