I met a man at a bar. He knew my friends and he seemed very nice. We found out that we have a lot in common. He asked for my number and I gave it to him. He then gave me his. A few days later I sent him a text message and he responded. We sent texts to each other every few days. Anyways one day he asks me to get something to eat with him after work. It wasn't a date but we did talk for about an hour. I thought it went really well. I don't hear from him all week so I sent him another text message. He responded and I asked him to go to a party with me on the weekend. He said he was out of town but he would try to go when he got back home before it ended. Well I call him later that night and he doesn't answer but he shows up to the party. The whole night he basically ignores me. I finally go up to him and talk to him but after a short conversation he starts talking to someone else. Did I do something wrong? I'm thinking maybe I pushed too hard and maybe I need to take a step back. Or maybe he didn't want a romantic relationship and just wants to be friends. Or maybe he was just in a bad mood. I however don't understand why he would avoid me. I know from mutual friends that he is kind of timid around females but I don't understand why he wouldn't want to talk to me. Should I call him in a couple of weeks?
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well you're female right?, wouldn't he be timid around u, since they made that observation?, anyway, from what it sounds like after he started talking to someone else, he's probably bored of you/didnt like the conversation, he could have handled it better, I think, but, hey, guys are just as weird as girls are ( no offense, I'm still trying to figure your gender out as well) if he continues to ignore you after a certain amount of time, just move on--hes not interested0