I have never had a boyfriend and I am 19. Even though I am smart, pretty, confident, independent, smile a lot, and am friendly...no boyfriend...ever.
After reading some stuff on this site...I thought: There is a chance that some guys might be interested in me but are shy. [i'm a freshie in college]
Would the qualities I listed above be intimidating for guys to the point that they'd never ask me out because of shyness or they think I would reject them? (Which chances are slim...considering I REALLY want a boyfriend).
If it is the case...should I just start asking guys out myself and accept the fact that guys just won't ask me out?
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By the sounds of it, because you really want a boyfriend, your coming across as desperate which rings bells(alarm bells) as high maitenance, and no guy wants one of them for a girlfriend, so stop being so eager to get a boyfriend, take yourself off the free and single list and remain anonymous, because if guys see that your comfortable with yourself and happy, friendly, you will get approached, but come across as needy or desperate for a boyfriend, they will walk the other way, good luck,x0
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