Well obviously there is this book out and a new movie about this. I was wondering though, how accurate is it? Like the saying that says if a guy friend requests you on myspace or facebook it's kinda like a not as tactful way. It's more like a booty call. Or if a guy really liked you immediately he would call you, email you, or instant message you right away if he liked you. I'm just wondering because there is this guy that I met and I added him on facebook and left a message. He didn't respond back but accepted my friend request. Then it showed we were online at the same time but he didn't even message me. Know that we've only talked to each other once and that was about a week ago. That's how long we've really known each other. Is he just not that into me? If so, I want to move on.
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Not entirely true. Remember aguy doestn want to appear desperate to the girl. So even girls I realy like I will wait at least 3 days to email back or call the very first time. This will stop after I know the girl for a while but at the beggining there is a wait. Also notice the hidden compliment in the title of the book.I've seen books written by women that say she doesn't like you. Or guys your waisting you time. Notice with us guys its not as harsh. He's just not that into you could mean that there is a side of your personality he has never seen and because you are wuite around him or shy he isn't into the girl your showing him. Believe me just because a guy isn't into you today doesn't mean that can't change. With a little work you can make a guy fall for you. Ill give you a real life example. I was at a club one time and there was this girl kinda just standing ther looking at t eh dance floor with a depressed look on her face. She realy didn't seem that happy. My friend said would you talk to her. I said ahh I'm realy not that intrerested. Notice I didn't say I don't like her. Guys realy don't feel hostility towards girls unless you give them a reason to. Its kinda nuetral indifference. Like the way you feel about the people at a party who seem friendly but are on the other side of the room. About an hour later I see another girl on the dance floor. Clapping her hands togeather smiling and happy. This other girl seemed much more upbeat then the first. I talked to her for about 15 minnutes asked her out and we went out on a date later that week. After I got her number and left the club with my friends my friend informed me that the girl who I asked out was the same girl I want realy into an hour earlier. What changed? When I saw the girl an hour earlier she seemed kinda depressed. An hour later she was having fun. The change was so drastic I did not even realize it was the same person. So just because a guy isn't into you now doesn't mean he won't be with a little bit of happyness and upbeatness you can change a guys mind about you.2