i really like this guy. I'm 18 and he's 19. thing is, he has a 4 year old daughter. I already love her and he has full custody over her, but I don't know if I wanna get involved in like, a family! its so much drama. also, him and baby momma dated for like 5 years before! I don't know her, but a lot of my friends do and apparently she is crazy. and he said he was completely done with her, but I'm still kinda scared. help please!
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If you really like the guy and adore his daughter then go for it, just know that he may want to see you in more of a mother role to his daughter. Like a glorified baby sitter. Helping her get ready for preschool, dressing her, that sort of thing. There might also be some tension since he's a single father and I can't imagine that being easy.
Really, it all comes down to how you feel about the situation. If you feel you are too young to get involved in this sort of situation (totally understandable) then you may want to reconsider. You could try it for awhile and see what happens. You aren't obligated in anyway to keep seeing him right?
Personally I wouldn't be interested in this sort of set up when I was 18 but that's me. Maybe just try it for awhile and see how you still feel about it?