I’m not butt ugly or anything and I try to lower my standards. What the hell? I really want one! It hurts so much. All my friends have bfs, particularly one. Lets call her kimmy. She constahow she’s about how she’s getting married in two years to her boyfriend and they’ve talked about marriage etc. And she got out of relationship and had a line-up of suitors she claims wanted to commit to her. WTF is wrong with me. I honestly think she makes me feel like sh*t. And she indirectly mocked me for being a virgin with another friend. I don’t know what to do. Like I try to put myself out there but nothing really happens. Does anyone else feel like this or is it only me. I’m 21 an no relationship experienc
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First off, with friends like that, who needs enemies? Replace this girl you call Kimmy with someone else that has a better attitude, personality, and less shallow. The only way you're going to get any dating or relationship experience is to make yourself available. Go out and do things with others. Have fun, talk, laugh, flirt.
So you're a virgin at 21. Big deal. It's easier for girls to lose it than guys. Especially after guys turn 25. Girls can lose it whenever they find the right guy, because the woman chooses her mate from all the other guys. So you can lose it, or you can save it for marriage, and give it to your future husband. He will like that very much.
Make new friends converse with guys, be approachable, be friendly. Lose any sense of bitchiness or a stuck up materialistic attitude, and good things will begin to happen. Most women either have really high standards, or are sluts (like Kimmy who was telling you she had guys lined up). Don't go the slut route, but lower your standards some. like to a 7 or something, Give guys a chance to show you who they really are. Good luck :)1