Question how many replies on online dating sits do I have to make be for a girl well answers? I have put no kidding 200 replies last month, and have never hear back. I never say any thing stupid I just send hi I am mike you sound nice would you care to chat I am losing hope.
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It really varies widely depending on the people you message. Some people are not that serious about online dating so they just make a profile and forget about it. While others take it more seriously and actually message back. Plus most of the people on there have other things they have to do like work, school, kids, etc... that might keep them from checking their messages very often.
Best thing to do is keep sending out messages. But I would recommend you stop putting "I am losing hope" at the end of your messages. It makes you sound desperate and that scares away a lot of people.
Also, grammar and punctuation count. I know that sounds silly, but it's true. If I saw a guys profile or messages and I couldn't understand what they were saying, it would deter me from replying or sending a message. I know not everyone is a good speller, but have someone read over what you write to fix that problem.
It doesn't have to be amazingly perfect, but I seriously have gotten messages from people that were unreadable because they used so many abbreviations and text talk. So avoid abbreviations and text talk as much as possible. Lol and ttyls are fine, stuff like that is widely used and most people know what it is. But using less common ones should be avoided.
From what you have written here it looks like you won't have that problem. Also in your messages, maybe mention something from their profile, that shows you actually read the profile and are making an honest effort.
People are not going to know you sent out 200 messages, but if you send a message that has some details that showed you actually took the time, it will set you apart and hopefully give you some success.
Online dating can be frustrating, but don't give up all hope. It does take time, it took me 8 months to meet my current boyfriend. Don't be afraid to try other dating methods. Also go on the message boards if there is one for your site, and ask for advice, and talk to people. Sometimes they arrange meet ups and events. Get involved with those, they are a great way to meet people and socialize!0