I really like this girl but she has told me she see's this other guy as well and longer then we have been hanging out. I do believe she likes us both and is torn. I normally would just let the other guy win because I wouldn't care but I really do like this girl. Is there anything I could do that might give me the edge? Would giving up maybe work in a way? I'm a mess right now.
So its between me and this other guy. Any tips ?
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I don't think I like the idea of liking two persons in the same time .. you both need to get away and she needs to make a definite choice! .. There is no such thing as fighting and bla bla .. not in this chapter! She may get blinded by your eagerness to have her and all that , but later on she may wake up .. and you might or might not like it .. this is not good , I think it's wrong that you guys fight for her.. Like they say " if you have something , let it go , if it comes back then it's yours.. " .. let her go ( your not giving up ) , if she comes back at your front door.. then she is yours and she will always be .. if not , then it wasn't meant to be! .. You can also tell her why you are going away so she won't think that you gave up or whatever .. let her know that your giving her space to realize what she wants .. and tell her that not going away might force her to take certain decisions .. I am sure she ll appreciate your maturity :) But again , this is just me ..0
i was a girl in this situation a few years ago. what you really need to show her is that you're willing to fight for her. letting her go won't show her what she's missing out, she'll just think you don't care as much as the other guy does. rather than letting it drag on, maybe you should just have a serious conversation with the girl and express your feelings for her. best of luck!0
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