When it comes to dating, or talking to a girl I like, I am a very shy guy, but I'm tired of that, I want to change, Anyone can give me some advice on how to become confident?
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1) When you get in contact with a girl, think about that she might be as nervous as you are. Somebody have to make a good time for you two :D.
2) With ability comes confidence naturally. So practice communicating with them. Practice it. Don't worry abut being bad at first. It will improve. Do it in scenarios that are more comfortable for you. So perhaps with somebody you don't like or your baby sister.
3) When you get too nervous view this girl as baby sister. Shy guys tend to think that she is always right and that one should do as she says so you have a chance. This is not true. Girls like men who does good to them, but not those who will only comply with what she says. So listen to what she has to say, but have your own opinions as well. And when she attacks you, verbally don't fight back. Think about her as your baby sister. If baby sister hits you, because you won't let her use knife, you don't hit back! You wait until she calms down and do something nice for her anyway. Of course still without letting her use the knife. If you know you are right stand your ground without a fight. There is nothing she can do to you. If you believe there is nothing, there will be nothing. You will get amazed that you are no servant to any girl but a partner and your confidence will fly in the sky.0