So I have this guy friend who always makes me feel better and talks a lot. When I broke up with my ex he offered to take me out to a movie and dinner to help me feel better and to get me outta the house. So I was expecting it to just hang out as friends. So the next week I took him up on his offer. When we talked about it, he called it a date. So I was kinda thrown off...
So we go out and he's dressed real casual and it seems like it was just hanging out again. So I don't know what to do? Here are my questions:
What was he expecting?
Should I ask him or just leave it alone?
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Some guys are considered "Passive Aggressive" and give mixed signals to everyone as a force of habit. It's their quiet sort of defense mechanism. The best way to know for sure is to ask him. If he hedges and gives you 1/2-baked bs answers, then drop him. Passive Aggressive guys are very hard on the heart and on the mind -- not just where potential dating is concerned, but with communication in general.1