I'm not sure what it is, but now that my girlfriend and I have agreed to be in a relationship, I'm finding it scarier and harder to know when to talk to her. When we were friends I never felt like when I see she was on Facebook chat that I couldn't chat with her for awhile. Now that she's my girlfriend, I'm intimidated about how much to talk to her to not appear clingy. The problem is though, she's never had a boyfriend, so she's being actually a little more distant than when she was my friend. It's like she's not sure how to act now since we changed the status quo.
How do you make the transition between friend and girlfriend?
What Girls Said 2
Sounds like both of you are just unsure how to act now that you have started seeing each other as boyfriend and girlfriend. You should talk to her about it. Tell her just what you said here and ask her how she feels. Then you'll both be a little more comfortable with the situation. And as time goes by you'll get into a routine and won't have to think so much about it. Good luck!1
Just because you're dating doesn't mean you guys can't still act like friends. Dating is friendship, just a level up. It can be really dangerous foe people to change once they've started dating. So I would say talk to her just as much as before unless she talks to you about it or asks for some distance. She's probably wondering the same thing, so I would agree that you should talk with her. Let her know you feel she's a little more distant and talk it through. Seriously, being open with each other and not holding anything back is the key to a healthy, non-misunderstanding relationship.1
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