I met a guy online( please don't judge me about online dating), we know each other for 4 months but only started dating recently. I'm 20, he's 23. He did send me pictures of himself and I can tell they're not photoshopped. But when I ask him to send me a video or a picture from his phone at this second, he refuses to do so, he says "I won't do it because you asked me to, I'll do it randomly when you least expect it(never done so yet)". He says he doesn't have a webcam and cannot afford one, because he has to pay bills, so I decided to send him a webcam as Christmas gift. He says he never received it, even though in my e-mail it clearly said the UPS left it at his front door. When he called me, he had a really girlie voice. Is it me or is it really suspicious? Can 23 years old guys have very girlie voices? I sense bulls*hit in this whole situation. Could he be a girl? I don't know what to do,I don't want to seem untrustworthy, but I really want to discover the truth.
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He might be sending you old pictures because he gained a lot of weight or just doesn't feel attractive anymore and is scared if you see him as he is now then you won't like him. That might explain the not wanting to take pictures at the exact moment you ask him or go on webcam or make videos. And it is possible for a man to have a girlie voice like that.2