A-Do I follow my heart and let the cards fall where they may with Girl#1
B-Give Girl#2 a chance since there is no history and maybe this will work out to be a much better choice in the long run.
or C- Not date anyone until I'm over any feelings for anyone. (FYI- I lost my wife of 8 years to cancer and I have a weekness to fill the void)
I am guilty of the yo-yo affect. I have been involved with two girls at different times. I am dating the last of my favorite who is quickly winning my heart over. But there is a "but" and that is, I am not completely over my #1. Let me tell you a little bit of the pros and cons and hopefully you can help me out to clear my mind.
Girl#1 I love like no other. She and I have been in an off and on relationship for 5 years. The reason of our break ups has just come to a head. She secretely had a drug problem and is now in route for recovery. Our off and on was because of me braking up with her and she always found a way for me to forgive and forget. I didn't know about her drug addiction but I knew something wasn't right and was the because of our break ups. I love her and she loves me but I can't take anymore heart ache if she relapses.
GIrl#2. I love but not as in love with her as #1. I am very interested in and I believe we can make something out of it. She is ready and moving super fast and wants to just get the relationship in the "Exclusive" status.
Torn between two girls
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