So, my best friend asked me to be his date on his 18th birthday and he made it pretty clear that we would probably be together then...
But then, last night, he's status on BBM was; 'Best night of my life *girls name*
So I asked him what was going on, he read it, but didn't reply, I decided to just ignore it.
THEN something came up and it is the same weekend as his birthday, so I told him that I couldn't go anymore, he got mad, swore at me, read my msgs and didn't reply again..
A few minutes ago he msged me and, me being me, I did what he did to me and just read it, and he got mad..
Why is he being like he is?
He told my sister that he really liked and miss me two days ago, then he has the best night of his life with some chick I don't know..
I am being too much of a girl?
Most Helpful Guy
ummmm I think you're both in the wrong ^^
him = he shouldn't have posted that status. It was slightly mean and very insensitive, but you never know, he could have just gone to a party hosted by the girls or something similar.
you = I hope you gave a reason for not being able to go? If so then his reaction whilst imature isn't particually bad. And what did he say in the bbm today? If he was apologizing or trying to explain why not listen? if it was just a "hey" why not ask him again what was up with the status and you didn't really like it.
Conclusion = You need to talk with him, this could have just been a big misunderstanding. If there is something with this other girl then you know and you can celebrate the fact that you didn't go out with such a d*** but otherwise you are both just being a little silly ^^
(also with a note about the whole BBM reading thing, don't just think because it went R he read it and purposefully decided not to respond. Those things can be buggy / or he just quickly was cycling through BBMs to stop the light flashing, I do that a lottt...)0
- Show AllShow Less