I've been dating my boyfriend for a while now and like most relationships, we were great at first but we're had a few small arguments time to time. Nothing too serious and none that would jeopardize our relationship. But the last week he's been very distant and now his birthday is next week and his ex-girlfriend is taking him to a Washington Capitals game in DC. I actually don't mind that because she has been planning this since before they broke up in Oct. But I'm just wondering if he's planning on leaving me for her right before his birthday. They were together for almost 2 years. Anytime I ask him if wants to do anything though, he ALWAYS says, he either doesn't know what he's doing that night or no. And I'm not really the stalkerish type of girl and I'm not that close with his family that they would tell me if his ex was or is there. I've been kinda laying low though and trying to keep my distance and that doesn't seem to be making a difference either. I don't want to say anything that has to do with him going to this game with her. What's your advice?
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It would not matter to me how long ago this was originally planned. If he's your boyfriend and she's an ex, then he should know that it's not good to go and she should find a replacement to fill that seat, or... she should let him still go and give her ticket up so he can bring someone. What's going on is not right, but it shouldn't necessarily be up to you to send up a flare. Maybe I'm old school, but it seems to me like you're giving him some rope and he's hanging himself with it.0