What are the do's and don'ts on the first date? Going on one this Friday, and I don't want to mess it up.
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There are so many Do's and don'ts I would rather just give you the gist of the mentality you should have. You should look at it as having a fun time with the girl. Getting her comfortable with you. Seeing where it goes from there. That is crucial. You need to build comfort and connection before you seek the romance and passion. Without it, then well you are just seeking meaningless sex (and you don't need to date to get that). Also don't force it, if the girl is simply just boring, and you have nothing interesting to say to her, it is not your fault, you are just not meant for each other. That is the whole point of dating, so you see if you connect and if there is something real. Anyway back to the comfort building, some people will feel easy and comfortable more easily than others. Usually that is a good sign. If you guys are laughing, and smiling and generally a good vibe then you can think about the romantic pursuit. When you are somewhere PRIVATE, and ROMANTIC (like an abandoned castle, a moonlit lake, a nice park bench even). Hold her hands and then turn her towards you. Look into her eyes and they should be tell you all you need to know. Just go for the kiss. If you built the comfort before and the place is private and romantic there is literally no way she will reject you. There, that is what work for me.1