I am 28 single parent. I am Asian and black, 5'7, 120lbs. I work full time ,I am a full time mother, and go to gym five days a week. Everyone tells how beautiful I am and that look like I'm in my early twenties. I have been told I have a great personality and I am a great friend. When I tell people I don't have a boyfriend or date much they are in shock.
I was with my child's father from time I was 18-25 and have not had a boyfriend since.
I don't understand what I Am doing wrong! Seems like all my friends have no problem in dating world even if they have children, are bitchy, married,or do not take care of themselves. I keep my self busy with hobbies and still can't seem too meet anyone.
The only time I get hit on a lot is if I go too a bar/club once or twice a year with friends. When I get lucky enough to meet someone they end up usually being married or looking to sleep with me only.
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It sounds like your life is already very busy. Men are going to be concerned about you having any time to spend with them, and what priority you'd be in their life.
Naturally, your kid will be your first priority (and it should be). But most single guys naturally prefer a woman without kids, so that they can be a couple without having to deal with the complications that come with a child. It's definitely going to be harder to find guys who have what it takes to date a single mom (they're out there, though!).
Basically, you need to expand your circles of friends, especially if most of your friends are married couples. Do more things with your single friends, and get to know their friends and expand THOSE circles. And don't be afraid to try some on-line dating.
And when you meet someone, make sure you're going to be able to make some time for him. That's going to be his biggest concern.0