So guys, is it okay for you if you were constantly asked by a female friend to accompany her? Not shopping those kind of things but more of like a way to ensure her safety? As in accompanying her/ drive her home at night/ walk with her to somewhere else.
Like I know I have to ask at least one guy friend to walk with me on the street if I'm alone because I feel safer when a guy is around (the housing area where my hostel located is a little too quiet) and none of us own a car. But sometimes I think I'm troubling them.
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any man worth making noise about will never turn down a woman when it comes to her getting home safely. Nice guys may finish last, but they do finish. If a man is decent enough to walk you home nightly, he should not expect ANYTHING in return, or he is not a real man.Give him a hug, but not a kiss on the cheek, tell him you are appreciative because you are really worried about walking home alone and you are really happy he is decent enough to help you get home safe. Like Sayaka said, do something small for him in return. Buy him a coffee or something when you run into him in a public place, but not lunch. One lunch is more expensive and two, lunch says a little more than just coffee. Ask him every time if he minds helping you and be grateful but don't make too big a deal of it in front of him even if it is a big deal to you. Women are worth protecting in my opinion and I find it a real shame that any woman has to fear for her safety no matter what time of day it is. But that is just me.6