my ex girlfriend texted me the this morning.. and said" I just don't understand why you can't have a normal conversation with me"
what does that mean?
we have been texting on and off for a week..and not once did I bring up about the breakup..cuz I know you gotta play it cool..last night I texted her.. and asked if she was just texting me because she's over me and thinks were friends..or might wanna get back...she was like" why can't you have a normal conversation with me and not about that" and then this morning she sent me the text above... hmm... what are your thoughts? advice?
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Well, you did bring up the break up without using the words directly. Asking "if she was just textng me because she's over me and thinks were friend" - is indirectly asking her about the break up. It sounds like she doesn't want to talk about feelings in a relationship sense with you at this point. She sounds bothered by it in all honesty. I think she just wants to talk to you about everyday things, like a friend would (and in a relationship, you're a friend + companion, right). Be a friend, without being emotional. Playing it "cool" is not asking about feelings, and indirectly trying to figure out her feelings towards you.0