After my break up, I started talking to a guy who has kind of a bad reputation for cheating on girls and lying.I started getting to know him. Unlike the other girls he talks to or dates, I'm smart and I actually try to figure out why he feels the constant need to cheat and lie. I know he's a good guy deep down, but he needs a little bit of guidance which is what I've been helping him with. I've even helped him improve his relationship with the girlfriend I don't like.. at first I thought I was just wasting my time, but he's actually taking my advice now, and thanking me for it.
The only problem is that every few days he just disappears. I spend all night trying to help him figure out what to do and then he doesn't talk to me for the next 4 days. I'm getting a little tired of chasing him around, especially because I'm doing all this for him. As much as I know he's a good person, and I want to help him, I don't know if I should give up.
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...Don't give up. People do what your doing for me I don't lie as much as I tell half-truths and whole riddles though and regardless of people saying that I may or may not have cheated on a girl, I've only ever gone all the way with one. I don't know exactly who you are talking about but personally...I just have to get out sometimes. I'm trying to be in a relationship right now with this girl who I barely know and haven't even met, just because she says she loves me and wants to be with me forever. I run whenever I get scared that I might be falling in love with someone but I always want to run back. I can't stand the fact that no matter what else, one day we will be separated. Do I believe in life after death, yes. But with as much abandonment issues as I have...I will always be running from the day we would have to say goodbye.