This has happened to me probably 10 or 15 times in my life time. I knew one girl for almost 10 years. She was cool we were just friends. Never really talked about dating each other. We knew it wouldn't work out between us. She told me about this guy she was talking too and he seemed cool. They seemed like they would make a good match. I noticed the more serious they got the less her and I talked but that's just how it goes. I didn't say anything because you know how love birds are in the beginning. Later on after a year passed I called her up to ask her what she's been up to. She told me that she couldn't talk to me and to never call her again. This isn't the first time something like this has happened. I don't understand why some girls do this. After 10 years she should realize that I'm not going to make any kind of move or do anything to compromise her relationship.
Are women so afraid of sleeping around they can't even talk to other guys while dating?
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Wow...no, I would say its women are afraid of sleeping around... its thier guy that's afraid of thier woman sleeping around..or simply possessive and feel they are all thier woman needs. I'm going through that right now with one of my best friends. He's jealous of me..and I'm never going to sleep with her!
I wouldn't take it personaly...easier said than done..and to be honest..its been 3 years and I still have a hard time with it that we can't be friends because her boyfriend feels he's the only best friend she needs. She certainly can't have any male friends... From the way your friend reacted to you call..Id say its more him than her.
Generally, I noticed its pretty common tha women lose touch with male friend when they start dating a guy, but they aren't rude about it..just fade away really. I dont...my friends are my friends..I still have lunch and go out for drinks with my male friends, and my boyfriend knows where I am and who I'm with. I'm not doing anything wrong or inappropriate with them afterall...most of the time they are talking about the girl in thier life...or how to get a girl, or what have you anyway.