Rebound relationships, good or bad?

What are your thoughts on rebound relationships? Are they good for someone who recently went through a bad break up to help them move on and get excited about the future? Or do they just make the hurt much worse when things don't work out again?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Rebound relationships is a very bad idea. It isn't even considered a 'relationship'. Besides hurting yourself, you are hurting the other person because he might develop true feelings for you. You then decide to quit hurting him immensely. A rebound will leave you feeling empty and frustrated and if you are a sensitive person, you will also feel guilty hurting this rebound guy. The best thing to do after a breakup is to focus on discovering yourself, your needs, your desires and your passions. Getting into a rebound shows frustration and lack of vision. It doesn't wok and it only hurts.

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What Guys Said 2

  • THey can work both ways.. But from my experience.. They just make it worse...

    I suggest you stay in the clear till you figure out what you want in a man/your life.

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  • Don't do it, sleep around or date around until you know what you want.

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What Girls Said 2

  • Ugh. Tough question. Is this just any old dude, or did you put some thought into this one? Everything that bugged you about the last one, should be nonexistent in this one. Or at least most of those things. Figure out why your relationships fail and then pick a guy that doesn't have those character flaws. Then it doesn't matter what timeframe you give yourself after a breakup. If he's right, he's right. If not... well just quit settling for any old chap that comes through the door.

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  • Bad idea, you might get hurt... the other person might get hurt because they can get too attached to you, when all you want is just a rebound... don't do it, it will only make you feel worse.

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