or would they prefer they do the pursuing?
Let's assume in this instance, the guy has already told the girl he likes her (she didn't say it back, but has slightly flirted), and has turned the guy down 2 times in the past for a hook up (yet somehow he still asked her to dinner).
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weirdly enough, I am the guy in this situation (almost exactly same) I would love it if the girl showed interest, just so I don't feel like she is doing it because I am pestering her. A relationship takes two people too work and if he constantly feels like he is the one doing all the work he will move on. Having said that try to let him own the idea, so that he believes it was his :). might give his ego a much needed boost.
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