Dot you hate when you text someone you like and have to endure the agony of awaiting their reply - and that's if they ever do? I'm in this situation right now and just wanna hear from the people who share my pain.
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Oh damn.. you just read my mind.
It's just annoying beyond words! Especially if you're interested in the person.
I used to suffer this according to a full program some years ago, but right now I've come to a state when I just don't give a f*** about it too much. "Hardening of the skin" one might say.
And that's also the reason why I don't rely too much on texting - I always prefer to make a phone call.
Why people do it there are only 2 options:
-friends-only case: they're lazy or oblivious or distracted or all of them
-romantic interest case: they're playing hot-and-cold or not wanting to look too "desperate"
But the reason doesn't matter, this is very rude thing to do in any case, if you're about to disappear - just say it!
OK - I'll admit, sometimes I also abruptly disappear from chats but at least I try to say when I leave or apologize about it later.
If it happens only few cases(few as less than three) then it's not too bad and perfectly forgivable, but if it's been 3 or more times then you must back-off from that person either partially or completely.1