I Like a guy for ages and then the next thing I see his true colors and go off him and than I think about all the weeks I wasting liking him could someone tell me why this always happens?
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Because you can find reasons to dislike anyone, if you look for them.
What happens is this. You like a guy. You like him for a long time. But nothing happens and he doesn't make a move on you.
This annoys you, though you may not be aware of it, and subconciously you decide that he doesn't like you back in that way, and so it's time to move on. And thus, you suddenly find reasons to reject him and think of him as an a**hole and stop liking him.
When a guy actually returns your affections, you probably won't do this. So don't worry about it.0