I saw this interesting question but it had no answers.
This is a quote from a self-help book about dating. Did the author write this because it's true, or because he wants the ladies to feel better and buy his book? :)
Quote: "When a man doesn't call a woman he connected
to in a deeper way, there are three possible
1) He doesn't know what to do with the connection
you share because it's not the right time for him
2) He doesn't know what to do with the connection
you share because he's not mature or capable of
getting any closer
3) Something was said or done that tells him that
a relationship with you is not a fit for him."
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How does one know if he actually did connect with her in a deeper way? Sure the woman might think that but that is the opinion of the guy who isn't in contact with her.
Why read self-help books anyway? So many people spewing out garbage and people just eat it up. Want to get rich? Buy my book. The last page should read "I got rich buy selling books like these to you! Thanks. :D"
So I digress, there are a multitude of reasons why. I use 'you' to represent the person who is the woman in the book.
His fantasy of you will be a disappointment. He has put you on a pedestal and you will never be as good as what's in his head.
He is drawn to you and he knows it. Though he feels that love is compromising his willpower. He would normally never do A but he has gone back on his promise to himself with you. That much control is dangerous and it scares him. Those are the type that could murder someone for you.
He might feel that you are courting other gentlemen callers. Yeah, he's not the one to fight for what he wants.
He might realize that you are out of his league. As status symbols that arise, he feels insecure with his masculinity if you have more money, a better car, better job, etc.
He was told a lie by a rival woman to throw him off your scent. Yes, women do this to be malicious. But his trust in the other woman (maybe a previous woman he was interested in) is greater than the newly formed trust between you and him.
Baggage. Not the kind of luggage you really want, as wounds heal the emotional scars might still be present. You might have done one or two things to throw up red flags. Before you realize what you did wrong, his is running for the hills. And that bastard stuck you with the check too. Grrr.
Dealbreakers got to him. You may want to wait for marriage before having sex and he's a guy who would like to test everything out. Maybe you don't want kids and he does. Maybe you like crunchy peanut butter and he loves creamy peanut butter (you laugh but my friend has broken up with someone over that).
His phone ran out of minutes or his phone plain broke. Sh*t happens and that's technology for you. Maybe the hypothetical situation asked was 'doesn't call' meant he hasn't called in 2 days. 2 DAYS OMG. Some women need to be in constant contact.
Abducted by aliens, arrested for flashing, kidnapped by a serial killer named "Gravedigger" and is held for ransom (Yeah, it was a Bones reference), got into an accident and has amnesia, left society to be a hermit, joined a cult, heavily into drugs mainly acid, his momma told him that women is the devil (Billy Madison reference)
That's all I got on the subject matter for now. :)1