There are 3 guys that text me every now and then. I have been on dates with all of them (over a span of time). They always text me to ask how I'm doing and such, but then as soon as we get past that, and I ask a question like "how was your day" or something, they disappear and don't reply. Only for the cycle to be repeated again later when they text me AGAIN like a week later. WHY do they do this? One of them asked me on another date but it's not even set in stone. Are they scared, bored, want attention,what is it!?!?
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The thing is that guys don't treat texting like girls do. They can get busy once they get a text/there attention is shifted elsewhere before they reply and then this just causes them to forget about the text and replying, that's no big deal to them. A lot of girls on the other hand, remember about a text even when they're busy. This sounds like the case. If you like one of the guys then I suggest you text them first. If they suddenly stop texting you then you can send a text telling them that you would like to catch up and to talk to you when they have time.0