How long does it take for you to know if she's girlfriend material?
Are there a certain number of dates? Or a certain timeline guys go by?
From my understanding you typically know after the 2nd or 3rd date if You want to continue to see her...but would you keep going on dates with her longer without making a relationship commitment?
How long is too long to wait for someone to commit?
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There's not a set time frame, as that's unnatural. Rather, I constantly observe EVERYTHING she is saying and doing. Very little gets by unnoticed. If a girl is relaxed and appears to not be changing who she is to who she thinks I want, life is good. You can only tell this with time, as most people try to put their best image forward during the first few dates. More time is better than less for determining if a girl is long-term material or not, but an artificial time frame won't help. If a girl has serious red flags, she'll get cut sooner rather than later. If you bring good traits to the table, a stable man will be more forgiving and attracted to you.0