Ok so this really cute blond has been chatting with me on a online dating site. I could tell it was her who was viewing my profile over and over so I said Hi and a quick message. Got basically an instant response. two more back to back emails and a farely fast return email in a day or so each time. Her last email I wasn't able to get back to her till Sunday ,she wrote on Thursday. I was honestly in a bit of a rush writing it. The next day I read what I had wrote and it had grammatical and spelling mistakes all over the place. I'm not sure if I goofed by doing this but basically today I wrote her apoligizing for my terribly written email and tried to keep it light and funny about it. I basically stated I wanted her to get the right impression of me :) I Haven't heard a word. Any girls out there that would appreciate this? and form a good impression of the guy or is apoligizing like this just indicating my interest in her approval way to fast and the fact that I didn't give her a lot of response time. I don't know, I just didn't want to give off the dbag who doesn't really care about the content of his email or the girl he is writing to image. I think I'm going to invent a dating site where you can delete the email if you goof up and it never gets to them haha.
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If I saw an apology for a poorly written message, I'd be flattered. However, when you try too hard to do the perfect thing, it may come off like you are desperate. This is probably why the girl reacted the way you mentioned. Personally, desperation appears a little creepy like it's almost like a stalking - I'm only speaking from my own experience. Can't really speak for anyone else.0
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