What is it with this guy? It's two separate rules for us and he admits it.. When I text him.. he texts me back like 3 hours later and I'm supposed to be there to answer. If he texts me, I have to reply within 10 minutes or he gets pissed off.. He got angry at me because I was working out and not by my phone when he texted me.. he refused to reply and shut off his phone because I didn't answer him.. What the hell is this rule? I'm so sick of it!
Guys.. why would you do this to someone whom you supposedly care for and whom you know cares for you?
It's not just this phone thing either.. this rule pretty much applies to our whole friendship. I'm just so done with these type of friends.
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He sounds very traditional, that is, very possessive of you. And the tradtional double standard: he isn't expected to be at YOUR beck and call, but you better be avaliable for him, instantly.
I opted out of traditional dating because usually it was like this, full of weird negative double standards, imposed by BOTH the guys and girls, although naturally DIFFERENT double standards.
I can pretty well promise he won't change, so.. you'll have to make a decision, and the sooner, the better.1