What do you guys aim to do on a second date? what are some things you want on a second date? what do you want to do with her/ him? what's the point of a second date? thoughts?
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well, it is to see if you want to progress with this person. Sometimes first dates are a bit iffy and you aren't turned off by the person and all...a lot of times they say "if the first date isn't bad, go on a second one"..you know, that drill. So I would say the second will really determine if I want to see the person again or not. Not if I want a relationship necessarily, but just if I want to spend more time with him.
But, if I'm not "feeling it" or see myself spending more time with him and possibly wanting to be in a relationship with him after the second date, I would say it's useless.
To me, getting to the third date after the second is a big milestone, because the second date IMO is like a continuation of the first date. You either liked the person on the first and you are double checking yourself, or if you were a bit ambivalent towards the person on the first date, this is your determination to see him again or not.
If it goes well, I would definitely want to kiss by the second date.0