Should I give him another try even tho I screwed it up?
On our first date I acted really emotional and a bit insecure during our date and now he has a different perception of me because he doesn't text me anymore. Before he asked me out on a date the texting was mutual and then he started texting me more than I did him because I didn't wanna make myself too available and it worked. But on our date I kind of screwed it up:/.. I don't want him to have that perception of me because that isn't me at all. I was just really nervous because it was my first date. I also kind of made it worse by constantly texting him after our date because I over analyzed a text that he sent me saying 'text me if you wanna do it again'(dinner). I did and we set up a day but then he canceled because he caught the flu and I haven't talked to him since.. This was in the beginning of Jan. should I try to talk to him or just leave him alone? He was able to initiate our first date so I know he can take charge when he wants something but I just hate that fact that that's how he thinks of me now when that's not me. We knew each other in high school and I was the very outgoing girl and he was the shy guy and on our date it was the opposite which he wasn't expecting. What should I do..
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I think you should text him one more time, saying "hello, I just wanted to see how you are"? If he doesn't respond then don't contact him anymore, unless he contacts you. And, it's OK to be nervous on a date(it happens), but don't apologize for it or over analyze it, just learn from it and you'll be fine. Sometimes you have to go through things to come out a better person. Good luck.0