On our first date I acted really emotional and a bit insecure during our date and now he has a different perception of me because he doesn't text me anymore. Before he asked me out on a date the texting was mutual and then he started texting me more than I did him because I didn't wanna make myself too available and it worked. But on our date I kind of screwed it up:/.. I don't want him to have that perception of me because that isn't me at all. I was just really nervous because it was my first date. I also kind of made it worse by constantly texting him after our date because I over analyzed a text that he sent me saying 'text me if you wanna do it again'(dinner). I did and we set up a day but then he canceled because he caught the flu and I havnt talked to him since.. This was in the beginning of jan. should I try to talk to him or just leave him alone? He was able to initiate our first date so I know he can take charge when he wants something but I just hate that fact that that's how he thinks of me now when that's not me. We knew each other in high school and I was the very outgoing girl and he was the shy guy and on our date it was the opposite which he wasn't expecting. What should I do.. This is our last text convo in the beginning of jan..
The last text I sent him:
Me: Ben! How are you? How's school :)
Him: Hey Anna. I'm good, thank you. School is kinda hard though even now. How are u?
Me: I'm good:) school starts for me on mon.. What classes are you taking?
Him:Physics, biochem, Chem bio, and a lab :/ you?
Me: neurobio right? Yea that is a handful:(.. But I'm sure you can handle it. I'm taking a&p micro and American politics..just thought I'd say hi:) gnite Ben:)
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no way I know a ben that is just as shy lol! but I'm sure its not the same one I'm in west virginia :/; OK so for one I don't think your insane like the dude that commented, but if you wanna go out for dinner again I think you should just text him and be like "hey, if ud like to I would like to go out to eat again", I mean what's the worse that could happen? rejection? yes but at least you tried and at least then you won't have to wonder if there could have been something there.1