Once it becomes clear that you and the girl you once chased are both interested, but not officially boyfriend/girlfriend yet, will you stop chasing?
This is what's happening to me right now, I'm not sure whether to look at it as "We are stable now, and can let things develop on their own. The chasing game is over, we are in the clear."
OR if I should see it as "I'm boring now that he's got what he's wanted. He's no longer interested."
A few weeks passed after the camp, and we kept in touch vaguely via Facebook. Turns out that after camp, he finally broke free of his girlfriend of a year and a half. He asks me out to coffee a week after the break up, which got extended into a walk and a dinner. I was still hesitant though.
NOW THIS IS THE STRANGE PART...
We while we chatted, he eventually lay down with his head on my lap. My hand rested on his chest, and he gently held it. It was delicate- fingers slightly intertwined, and he stroked my hand etc.