I find that sitting across on the first date is nice, but in a relationship on dates, I like to sit next to them.
- Across from them.Vote A
- Next to them.Vote B
- Depends.Vote C
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If it's just the two of us, we always sit across from each other, because we're going to be talking a lot and it's much easier to see each other that way (and I want to look at her). If we're in a bigger group, then I definitely have her sit next to me.
In a relationship, when we're out somewhere, we still sit across from each other for the same basic reason, to talk. But that's fine, because as soon as we get home, we're going to end up on the couch or bed, and she's going to be cuddled up against me, and we'll have plenty of time together, and can be more intimate without it being weird out in public.1