This may be a bit of a confusing question, and it’s sort of a 2-part question so bear with me.
1. Does your attitude change towards a guy when he approaches you if have seen him around before or not? I guess what I’m trying to ask is, are you more willing to converse with a guy when he approaches you if you have seen him around before? If he is a complete stranger and you have never seen him around before are you less likely to converse with him?
2. If you and a guy keep bumping into each other but you don’t really notice him or pay attention to him when you keep crossing paths, is that a signal that you don’t want him to approach you?
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To the initial/overall question, 98% of the time.
1. If the guy is someone I know or am familiar with, I smile, he smiles back, if he starts approaching then hesitates, I'll sort of wave him over if I'm free or in an open group of people, and he comes over (sort of cocky, smiling with good posture not that he's sure I'm not going to shoo him away). If I don't know a guy, happen to glance in his direction and see him smile, I smile back. It keeps the positive energy circulating in a world where positive energy is gradually evaporating.
2. If we're in a close space and keep having to dance around each other, I laugh it off and thank him for the dance. (A guy once bowed and said, "My pleasure," which I thought was cute.) If we just happen to keep seeing each other on the same day/week, I smile and make a quick joke like "If I run into you one more time I'll have to play the lotto." The guy grins and if we do bump into each other again we both have a nice chuckle about it.
POSITIVE ENERGY. If you don't feel it in the air, be sure to use your energy to put some of it back out there!